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May 17th, 2006 (10:19 pm)

I get pissed off when people want me to drop everything I'm doing to hang out with them. Is that wrong of me. A guy I have met at various events called me Monday. He wanted to hang out sometime. I said it was okay as long as I could work it into what I had to get done and to give me a call. He called, didn't get me. Didn't leave a message, emailed me today and said "It's 6:15 and I couldn't get you".

He then IMed ladybiggs and asked HER to get ahold of me.

Thankfully she told him to bug off and she would tell me when she saw me.

I got up yesterday at 2 pm. I ran until I had to work at 5 this morning. I worked until 8 am. I came home after work and slept from 10 am to 6 pm today and then I got up. I didn't get out of bed until 7 because of muscle and tissue and joint pain. I took ibuprophen and so I feel better now... but still.

From there I had to go to the store and get groceries. No one told me this until today when I got up. I had planned to fix the toilet today. However, I didn't feel up to it. I am cranky and don't want to be around my own family, let alone outside people and people I barely know. I have to work my son through schoolwork tonight that he has to get finished before the end of the school year and his end of year review that he HAS to pass or he doesn't go on to the first grade.

Why can't people understand when I tell them no that I mean no? Why do they have to incessantly bug me?

I have a woman who wants to put up a display in the store. I called her and told her to call me. Fine and good. She has called me three times today, once in the morning, once in the afternoon and then again while I was grocery shopping this evening. Jesus, woman... Just call ONCE, tell me when you are available and at what number and wait for me to call you. I DO have a life, you know. Then she calls me and tells me that SHE will meet with ME on Friday morning and I should call her at "insert her number here repeated four times" to confirm.

Um, first of all... I will be working the bar on Friday. I can't get away from the counter until after someone comes in at either 7:30 or 8 and we usually get busy at that time. I am not sure I am going to be able to look over her work before she posts it. I want to talk to her first. *sighs*

WHY are people so goddamned PUSHY?? Fuck.

*returns to her writing and artwork to keep from killing something or someone*


meek2038 (11:50:12 PM): so you had a busy day?
Solitia (11:52:37 PM): Not busy, really. Just the normal. It's more the body pain and the incessant nagging at me by not only my grandmother but the people who want to put art up at the coffeehouse. I have this one woman who has called me FOUR TIMES today. I was at work the first time she called, the second I was sleeping, the third I was sleeping and the fourth I was out getting groceries.
meek2038 (11:54:59 PM): amazing, someone was able to call you?

Okay, SO not the good thing to say to me. I HATE being pressured into ANYTHING. Fucker.


Posted by: liv_sunshine (liv_sunshine)
Posted at: May 18th, 2006 02:48 am (UTC)

Shit, I didn't even tell him that much, I never even acknowledged the IM until (1) he had logged out and (2) I checked the computer at 8 >_<;;

And that's generally how Findlay-ites are trained to do things... the center of the universe is THEM and all else must bow down and obey their will. e_e;;

Priorities. Seems like you're the only one who has them straight anymore *huggs*

Posted by: sayonara_solita (sayonara_solita)
Posted at: May 18th, 2006 02:52 am (UTC)

Why thank you Sephy! I didn't realize it was you who had taken the message for Biggs!

I don't precisely have my priorities straight... but I know some things come before some other things. *shrugs* (Sometimes in sacrificing my body to do so. lol)

Posted by: liv_sunshine (liv_sunshine)
Posted at: May 18th, 2006 03:05 am (UTC)

My pleasure. I think, though, you and Biggs both are too much alike... there's the essential list that ALWAYS overrides... then there's the sparkly things that come along and distract.

Kudos to you for kicking them to the curb, noisy, life-stream-stealin' thieves...

Posted by: Kili Rae (killishandria)
Posted at: May 18th, 2006 08:45 pm (UTC)

*twitch* loves the pushy people that think your life should revolve around theirs.

*hugs the Carrie* Good Luck not killing people

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